When I was introduced to Guru Jayashree Nair I was already presenting Bharatanatyam at a professional level. In fact I had undergone training in the Thanjavur style so it was pretty tough for me to adapt to her style. But teacher was generous. Instead of insisting on moulding me into her way of presentation; she permitted me to pick up what best I could and integrate it with what I had learnt previously. I was saved the tedious process of unlearning what was pre-impressed upon me. I would have probably given up and found another way if she would not have been accommodating. 

It was a long journey from where I resided to her house where she taught me on a one to one basis. My lunch was invariably with her family. I relished their traditional Malayalee cuisine. Especially the herb infused water. It was an altogether novel introduction for me. I was fascinated. And the best was refreshing green tea (with lemon-tulsi-honey) after the exhausting practice sessions; that was a specialty of teacher’s husband (“Uncle” as all fondly call him) 

Teacher’s daughter who is now an accomplished dancer singer was then a young girl. But we soon became friends. She later provided vocal accompaniment to my performances. We have enjoyed our trips to various cities and towns in India that we visited as a part of my Bharatanatyam presentations. 

I later secured admission for post-graduation in Pune University and my visits to teacher’s house reduced. But we never lost touch. I can never forget the whole hearted support I received from all three of them during my students’ Arangetrams.

I no longer perform or teach dance but the bond that was developed during those years will continue to stay forever. Those lovely days have a special place in my heart and I cherish their memories dearly. I am indebted to them for the love they showered. And offer my obeisance to their unflinching dedication towards preservation and promotion of arts and culture.